I don't know the meaning behind this happening and at the time it scared me since Les was in Louisiana and I was alone. It could symbolize love or anger with his mother's dying.

A week later I had a dream/vision where Les's dad was sitting in an unpainted wooden lawn chair out in a meadow with a forest in the near distance. I have seen this location before in dreams and when out-of-body. Les and his older brother (who died before Les was born) stood in front of their dad. Their dad was looking at them and said, "My two sons." This had me worried, because I thought maybe Les was going to die. The next day a voice came over the recorder and said, "Les is fine."

Then Les's mother appeared to me the following week and we were in a large room with many women. They were all in pastel dresses and Les's mother was the only face I was able to see, all the other faces were hazy (this happens a lot with spirits in my dream/visions). She looked at me and said, "I would never have believed this before." I think she meant that she would be with all of these people and could also visit me. She was a Catholic and she believed in going to purgatory.

Two weeks ago I was watching television during the night hours, from my bed, when I dozed off and was quickly woken with Les's mom standing by my side. She was looking at Les and ask him, "Will she be going back?" I knew she meant would I be going back when my mother died. So I answered her in thought and told her I wouldn't be going back to Pennsylvania, because of personal health problems. I didn't go back to her funeral, now I wonder if her feelings would have been hurt if I'd gone back to my mother's funeral? My mother died this past Tuesday June 6, 2000 and today is Sunday. I believe Les's mother knew that my mother was coming over to the Otherside.

She wasn't fully manifested, but yet was in clear form and she was standing within the night light (the light was on) on my bed stand. They can appear over or through anything, as though the tangible doesn't exist for them. I only saw her from the waist up to her head. She appeared to be much younger than her 94 years, but still had gray hair. Actually she looked to be around seventy as when I first met her. The spirit relatives always appear younger and healthy. My dad appears with black hair rather than gray, he was 78 when he died, but didn't start getting gray until after 60. I would say the older spirits usually appear twenty or more years younger.

Now I am waiting to hear from my mother in a dream/vision.